> I understand that many of you find alone-ness to be natural, and even required.

Anyone who identifies as a 'loner', 'introverted', etc. is method acting. The label only matters if there are people to convey it to. Remember that the only reason you know of people claiming this, is because they said it to an audience, not themselves.

> I'm finding it hard to actually do any of that

Figure out how to. Don't internalize psychological excuses. Use the gun-to-your-head test with extravagance.